Conflict by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
When you are in a harmonious environment your mind picks up any excuse to be in conflict. In this situation, small things are often enough to create tremendous turmoil. And when you are in a contention environment you tend to seek harmony. Ask yourself this questions: Do you seek harmony in every situation or do you seek to widen the differences and prove your righteousness? When your survival is at stake, you do not complain that nobody loves you. But when you are safe and secure you start demanding attention. Many people create conflict in order to get attention. The seed of negativity and the tendency for conflict in you can only be annihilated by sadhana – spiritual practices.