Art of Non-Conformity (Audiobook) by Chris Guillebeau

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Meh! It’s basically a light version of 4 Hour Work Week. Don’t get me wrong it’s got great info and maybe better to start with this one and then move on to 4 Hour Work Week. But since I read the latter before I just found it repetitive. And I’m definitely underselling this one which you will realise as you read the contents below.

Few things that I did like/take from the book:
- Being guru free
- Charities exist to sustain themselves!!!! DEEP!
- When you know you need to do something ask yourself. Why should I do this? What will happen if I don’t?
- Lots of folks have a to do list/start doing list. He also recommends a stop doing list.

A Look at Conventional Assumptions

CONVENTIONAL INTERPRETATION
- Higher education trains students for a profession
- Associations and organizations exist to protect people from harm
- Religious institutions provide answers and shared experiences to members
- Charities exist to help people
- Entertainment & publishing firms ensure a meritocracy in literature, the arts, and filmmaking

ALTERNATIVE INTERPRETATION
- Associations and organizations exist to restrict our choices and enforce monopolies
- Religious institutions subdue members toward a common belief to increase their own power
- Charities exist to sustain themselves
- Entertainment & publishing firms establish a cartel that promotes mediocrity and hinder independent artists

Contents:
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication

PART I – The Remarkable Life

CHAPTER 1 – Sleepwalkers and the Living World
CHAPTER 2 – Setting the Terms of Your Unconventional Life
CHAPTER 3 – Smashing Through the Brick Wall of Fear
CHAPTER 4 – How to Fight Authority and Win

PART II – Reclaiming Work

CHAPTER 5 – Competence Is Your Security
CHAPTER 6 – Graduate School vs. the Blogosphere
CHAPTER 7 – The Power of Your Own Small Army
CHAPTER 8 – The Personal Finance Journey

PART III – The Power of Convergence

CHAPTER 9 – Radical Exclusion and the Quest for Abundance
CHAPTER 10 – Contrarian Adventures
CHAPTER 11 – Your Legacy Starts Now

CONCLUSION
POSTSCRIPT:
GRATITUDE PARTNERSHIP WITH CHARITY: WATER AND ETHIOPIA
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
ONLINE RESOURCES
ABOUT THE AUTHOR

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You Can Heal Your Life by Louise L. Hay

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You Can Heal Your Life by Louise L. Hay

I picked this one up thanks to the smart people book club. Right off the bat I can recommend it as the best stepping stone to self-awareness, improvement and getting to know yourself better. It’s got all the important tidbits from all the books and audios I’ve listened to so far. She covers all aspects of our lives, past, present and future. You get to understand a lot of your problems have something to do with things you’ve not got closure on or not feeling deserving. That was one of the biggest message in the book, so simple but so neglected. The table of contents will give you a better idea of what the book as to offer.

Notes:
- She talks about why would someone spend so much time writing a book. It becomes part of them and similarly why we spend so much time reading certain books.
- When theres is a problem, there is not something to do, there is something to know.
- Lots of self talk, self-analysis, affirmations and visualisations.
- The chapter where she connects the dis-ease/symptoms to the problem didn’t settle well with me. I need proof of research!
- Something about the next time I get a migraine I should masturbate even though I wont be in the mood… so I might get back to you on that one.
- Chain of events e.g. When you smoke you might be smoking because of the relationship you’re in. Soon as you stop smoking you realise it was a way to ‘ignore’ the relationship problems… etc etc.
- I found her story a bit too frou-frou for me.
- The day the book club met, Ester talked about her experience which gave me a missing piece in one of my puzzles so yay to that.

Contents
Contents
Foreword
Part I – Introduction
Suggestions to My Readers
Some Points of My Philosophy
Chapter 1 What I Believe

Part II – A Session with Louise
Chapter 2 What Is the Problem?
Chapter 3 Where Does It Come From?
Chapter 4 Is It True?
Chapter 5 What Do We Do Now?
Chapter 6 Resistance to Change
Chapter 7 How to Change
Chapter 8 Building the New
Chapter 9 Daily Work

Part III – Putting These Ideas to Work
Chapter 10 Relationships
Chapter 11 Work
Chapter 12 Success
Chapter 13 Prosperity
Chapter 14 The Body
Chapter 15 The List

Part IV – Conclusion
Chapter 16 My Story

Afterword
Deep at the Center

Appendix
Holistic Healing Recommendations
Self-Help Resources
Index
Also by Louise L. Hay
About Louise L. Hay

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The White Tiger: A Novel (Audiobook) by Aravind Adiga

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The White Tiger: A Novel (Audiobook) by Aravind Adiga

Story of a poor unique (like a White Tiger) Indian living the poor Indian life and how he became a success through murder.

It’s an ok book. You have to have an idea about Indian lifestyle and culture to get some of it but the book does explain all the different worlds pretty well.

Now theres 2 things that bugged me. 1 – Kerry Shale read the book in an Indian accent… why not just get a well spoken Indian… there are tons of them! 2 – Every time he said River Ganga he would pronounce it Ganja… which leads back to my first point!

So overall not the most impressive book but not bad. Big up Bratul Uncle and Nirav for the recommendation.

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How to Get the Truth Out of Anyone by John J. Webster

How to Get the Truth Out of Anyone by John J. Webster
15 page book with lots of ‘silver bullets’ on how to find out if someone is lying. Not really getting the truth out of everyone but hey it’s a start.

Contents
Introduction:
I. Signs of Deception
Section 1: Body Language
Section 2: Emotional States: Consistency and Contradiction
Section 3: Interpersonal Interactions – When we are wrongfully accused, only a guilty person gets defensive. Someone who is innocent will usually go on the offensive.
Section 4: What Is Said: Actual Verbal Content
Section 5: How Something Is Said
Section 6: Psychological Profile
Section 7: General Indications of Deceit

II. Becoming a Human Lie Detector:
Phase One – Three Attack-Sequence Primers
Phase Two – Eleven Attack Sequences
- Attack Sequence 1: Direct Questioning
- Attack Sequence 2: Lead and Confine
- Attack Sequence 3: Time Line Distortion
- Attack Sequence 4: Direct Assumption / Shot in the Dark
- Attack Sequence 5: The Missing Link
- Attack Sequence 6: Who, Me?
- Attack Sequence 7: Outrageous Accusations
- Attack Sequence 8: Is There a Reason?
- Attack Sequence 9: Third-Party Confirmation
- Attack Sequence 10: The Chain Reaction
- Attack Sequence 11: Condemn or Concern
Phase Three – Eleven Silver Bullets: How To Get The Truth Without Beating It Out Of Them
- Silver Bullet 1: If You Think That’s Bad, Wait Until You Hear This!
- Silver Bullet 2: It Was An Accident. Really!
- Silver Bullet 3: The Boomerang
- Silver Bullet 4: Truth or Consequences
- Silver Bullet 5: Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace
- Silver Bullet 6: Reverse Course
- Silver Bullet 7: I Hate To Do This, But You Leave Me No Choice
- Silver Bullet 8: I Guess You’re Not Allowed
- Silver Bullet 9: Higher Authority
- Silver Bullet 10: The Great Unknown
- Silver Bullet 11: I Couldn’t Care Less

III. Tactics For Detecting Deceit and Gathering Information In Casual Conversations
General Conversations
1. Ask-a-Fact
2. Add-a-False Fact
3. Support-a-Fact
4. Expand-a-Fact
Special Occasions
1. Third-Party Protection
2. The Power Play
3. HurtFeelings
4. It’s A Matter of Opinion
5. I Don’t Know
6. I’m Simply Embarrassed
7. Divide and Conquer
8. Professional Reliance
9. I Don’t Know and I Don’t Care
10. I Just Heard
Directing The Conversation
Getting Specific
Let The Truth Be Told
Taking Control

IV. Mind Games
A Strong Defense: Avoiding The Lie
Know Thy Enemy: Knowing The Liar and His Intentions

V. Advanced Techniques For Getting The Truth
Embedded Commands
Unconscious Creations
Disassociation
Eye-Accessing Cues
Advanced Conversation Stoppers: Trance Phrases
See For Yourself

VI. Tricks Of The Trade
Rule 1: Wow! You’re Just Like Me
Rule 2: Beware the Stranger Bearing Gifts
Rule 3: It’s Half Price! But Half of What?
Rule 4: Just Do This One Little Thing For Me?
Rule 5: The Bandwagon Effect
Rule 6: Rare Doesn’t Always Mean Valuable
Rule 7: I’m on Your Side
Rule 8: Well, Can You at Least Do This?

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The Wisdom of the Stoics by Frances Hazlitt and Henry Hazlitt

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The Wisdom of the Stoics: Selections from Seneca, Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius

If you want to know know about Stoicism I suggest you wiki it first because I’m not even going to start on it. Well maybe a little bit. There is so much wisdom in the philosophy. Too bad some of it confused me because of the way they talk that old school english.

Some things that stood out to me:
- I will live and die with this testimony: that I loved good studies, and a good conscience; that I never invaded another man’s liberty; and that 1 preserved my own. I will govern my life and my thoughts as if the whole world were to see the one, and to read the other; for what does it signify to make any thing a secret to my neighbor, when to God, who is the searcher of our hearts, all our privacies are open.
One part of virtue consists in discipline, the other in exercise; for we must first learn and then practice. The sooner we begin to apply ourselves to it, and the more haste we make, the longer shall we enjoy the comforts of a rectified mind; nay, we have the fruition of it in the very act of forming it: but it is another sort of delight, I must confess, that arises from the contemplation of a soul which is advanced into the possession of wisdom and virtue. If it were so great a comfort to pass from the subjection of our childhood into a state of liberty, how much greater will it be when we come to cast off the boyish levity of our minds, and range ourselves among the philosophers? We are past our minority, it is true, but not our indiscretions; and which is yet worse, we have the authority of seniors, and the weaknesses of children (I might have said of infants, for every little thing frights the one, and every trivial fancy the other). Whoever studies this point well will find that many things are the less to be feared the more terrible they appear.
- Bestowal of benefits: Don’t give because you’ve been asked to give, don’t give because you expect to reap some reward, don’t give to someone who will want more, etc.
- If you know someone is going to ask you for something… don’t wait for them to ask, let them save face and give if it is within your … givinghood?!
- It is better to offend seldom (owning it when we do), and act often wisely, than to say we seldom err, and offend frequently.
- If any one tells you that such a person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you, but answer: “He doth not know my other faults, else he would not have mentioned only these.”
- There is a funny part where Marcus Aurelius cautions one not to get angry over another persons smelly armpits and/or bad breath.
- Speech is the index of the mind.

Big up Tim Ferriss for mentioning Stoicism.

Contents
1. Introduction

2. Seneca
- Of a happy life
Happiness Founded Upon Wisdom
Happiness Founded Upon Virtue
Philosophy the Guide of Life
The Force of Precepts
No Felicity Like Peace of Conscience
A Good Man Can Never Be Miserable
Providence the Cure of Misfortunes
Of Levity of Mind
A Wise Man Proof Against Calamities
Of Sincerity of Manners
Happiness Can Never Depend Upon Fortune
What Befalls One May Befall All
A Sensual Life is a Miserable Life
Of Avarice and Ambition
The Blessings of Temperance and Moderation
The Blessings of Friendship
Consolations Against Death

- Of Benefits
Of Intentions and Effects
Of Judgment in the Bestowal of Benefits
Of the Matter of Obligations
The Manner of Obliging
Of Requital
Of How the Receiver Should Act
Of Ingratitude
Of Anger
Suppressing Anger
Anger a Short Madness
The Effect of Anger

- Epistles
Of Writing and Speaking
The Knowledge of Virtue

3. Epictetus
- Book One
- Book Two
- Book Three
- Book Four
- Fragments of Epictetus

4. Epictetus: The Enchiridion (or The Manual)

5. Marcus Aurelius
- Book One
- Book Two
- Book Three
- Book Four
- Book Five
- Book Six
- Book Seven
- Book Eight
- Book Nine
- Book Ten
- Book Eleven
- Book Twelve

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Born Standing Up (Audiobook) by Steve Martin

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Born Standing Up (Audiobook) by Steve Martin

I got this because Dane Cook mentioned the book in his talk with Google. The audiobook is read by Steve himself and it’s like a memoir about how and why he go in and got out of stand up comedy. The thing is, when Steve reads the book he sounds so boring. It’s like he didn’t have the energy to do it, nothing like how you see him in the movies. So while it was the hardest audiobook to focus on, I got to know parts of Steve that I didn’t know existed. And because I was so disappointed with the narration I thought I’d go through his standup albums and works before doing this review. Well his stand up is not only funny… the guy plays a mean banjo. I mean proper banjo skills! His act has lots of props and gimmicks, lots of magic, music and the tempo is all over the place. And his heckling skills are great! Some other works of his include a couple of music albums where he mostly plays the banjo in the band. So the audiobook was the not the most entertaining. Big up Dane Cook anyway, I got to see another side of Steve Martin.

Contents
- Beforehand
- Coffee and confusion
- Comedy through the airwaves
- Disneyland
- The bird cage theatre
- Television
- The road
- Breakthrough
- Standing down
- Acknowledgements

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